The decision to downsize is far more than just the sale of the “big” house and a move to a smaller living space.  It is a move fraught with future-altering decisions and emotional turmoil, often made without the help of a deceased or incapacitated spouse and out-of-state children. While every other sale and purchase has been a move “up” the ladder: bigger, better, closer to kid’s schools and more amenities, this move is letting go.  Giving up of possessions, memories,…